The saying goes, “Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole.” This resonates deeply with anyone who has had the joy of sharing their life with a dog. The bittersweet truth is that our furry friends never stay with us as long as we’d wish. Yet, it’s this very impermanence that blesses us with the opportunity to learn, love, and grow alongside a variety of canine companions, each leaving an indelible mark on our hearts.
Tom Hennessy, an artist and columnist, once mused that dogs should live as long as their masters. While I share his sentiment, I also see the silver lining. The relatively short lifespan of dogs means we get to experience the unique joy and lessons from many different canine friends throughout our lives.
From Licorice, who was quickly renamed Giblet after a memorable Christmas incident, to Nori, who won hearts with her cuddliness and unexpected love for lettuce, each dog brought a distinct flavor of joy into my life. They were more than just pets; they were teachers, confidantes, and family.
Giblet, my childhood companion, was a creature of adventure, teaching me the value of exploration and the importance of a loyal friend by your side, whether hiking Colorado’s tallest peaks or making the long journey to Maine for college.
Niki, the dog that accompanied me through the significant transitions of adulthood, illustrated the power of resilience and the comfort of unwavering companionship during times of change. Her spirit of adventure and her presence during my move to Maine for a new job chapter reminded me of the constant in life: change, and the importance of having a loyal friend through it all.
Maddy, who arrived during a period of rapid life changes, including the birth of my children, showed me the beauty of calm amid the storm. Her walks to school with my daughters became a cherished ritual, symbolizing continuity, family bonds, and the simple pleasures of life.
Finally, Nori, my latest companion, who passed away unexpectedly earlier this month, embodied love’s power to heal and the importance of expressing affection freely. Her eagerness for treats and her affectionate nature were reminders of the joy found in life’s simple moments.
The passing of each dog has left a void, a silent space filled with memories of love, lessons learned, and the countless ways they enriched my life. And yet, the heartbreak of their loss is also a testament to the depth of our bond. It’s a reminder of the capacity of the human heart to love, mourn, and eventually, to open itself to love again.
Dogs teach us about love, acceptance, adventure, and the importance of living in the moment. They remind us to appreciate the simple joys, like a walk on a crisp morning, the comfort of a quiet evening by the fire, or the unconditional love evident in a wagging tail.
As I mourn Nori and reflect on the joy each of my dogs has brought into my life, I’m reminded why I’m ready to welcome another furry friend into my heart. Though they may not stay with us for long, the love they give and the lessons they teach us last a lifetime.
